Involved?!?!

[Sparkles]

Piggy back off of looking for a Ring. Who has dated someone knowingly they were in a relationship? were you completely committed to them knowing they had someone else, and what happen to the relationship?!?!?!?!

[shtalker]

Well for me I went into the relationship with the intent to just kick from time to time. It just got serious and almost 8years later I am still there and if it comes to bite me in the ass then I knew what to expect from jump. I am not in denial at all.

[seductive_tee]

Got involved with a married man...i knew he was married from day one. sex....the bomb....

was i committed to him knowing...sexually yes, but i went out with other men, just didn't have sex them.

what happened with the relationship...still friends to this day.

[lovely]

One of my ex-coworkers and i have always been tight. We tried dealing with the feelings. But its getting harder. He has a girlfriend though...and lives with her. I could get him if i wanted to. I am thinking about it.

[Sparkles]

FOr me, when I first met My husband e was still attached, so i just chilled to let im decide what he was going to do. I didn't pressure him into anything, if fact, he was the tripping, I was still dating doing my thang. He would come over, and I would leave him at my house, and go to the club, because I told him he needed to get his shit together cause I was straight. e said he had ended it, but who know, anyway if they were still kicking it, it must have been before I got off from owrk, cause ole boy was whipped!lol He pratically had moved in!!!!:D


I dated another guy who was married, but I didn't know, and when I found out, i broke it off......I didn't need any more bad luck!!

[Tastey]

In the past I dated married men...why? cus I was stupid as hell that's why. Thank God for growth.

My current HLF was involved with someone else when we first started kicking it several months ago. I let him know that was not going to work so he broke it off with her after a few weeks.

At this point in my life being involved with a married/involved man would be a HUGE waste of time. I don't see myself doing that again.

[Sparkles]

Originally posted by Tastey+
In the past I dated married men...why? cus I was stupid as hell that's why. Thank God for growth.

At this point in my life being involved with a married/involved man would be a HUGE waste of time. I don't see myself doing that again.

I guess that's the point I am trying to make. Why do folks settle? He's a good provider, but he;s.whorish, he takes care of his kid's but doesn't spend time with them. want you to be understanding, but has zero tolerance when it come to you!!!! I guess the old saying is true, a piece of man is better than none!!!

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by Sparkles+
a piece of man is better than none!!!

Now, that's the truth~!! :eek: Especially when you don't want to be bothered with the man all the damn time~!! :rolleyes:

I've dated this guy that was involved with his son's mother. . I was not committed to him and he was not committed to me~!! :blah: And, he damn sure wasn't committed to his son's mother either. . was he~??!!! :fu

We actually still see each other from time to time~!! :upretty

[nubianx2]

Haven't done the married man thing, that just hits too close to home for comfort. I have dated guys that I knew were dealing with someone else only because I didn't want either a real commitment or relationship from them at that time.

[Sparkles]

How can you completely commit to someone who is NOT completely committed to you... THAT crazy!!!

[HulaSista]

you know, i look at these bumped threads and HOPE i didn't say anything stupid... so i looked into this one and had a sigh of relief! lol that's what bumping threads will do to ya!

[novelty]

I would never mess with someone that is married. I did mess with one guy that was in a long distance relationship and that was not my original intention. We started out as friends and I knew that was all it was because I knew he was in a relationship, but we started spending a lot of time together and talking on the phone everyday. We never had sex but there were some feelings there that shouldn't have been considering the situation.

I don't understand how a female could mess with someone who is involved thinking they will one day be committed to them. I have saw this situation a couple times and I can't understand how an female would want to be with someone that they know was unfaithful to his current girlfriend. What makes her think she is so special that he won't do the same thing to her?