you want to hang out and he doesn't...

[ThickBodyHottie]

okay, let's say you go back to where you grew up after living in another place with your s/o...when you get there, friends hit you up to hang out and you want to hit spots that you miss - like certain clubs and restarants and cribs and such...

your s/o doesn't want to hang out like that...what would you do?

[Sparkles]

When I use to go home when I first got married, but s/o never wanted to hand out, but it was because usually it was a lot of ole female classmates chllin, so it was never an issue for us. Since then my s/o hang with my cousin a lot when we go home, so we our own thang and end up at the same place come the end of the night!!!

[Bedroomeyes]

Make sure he was well fed and comfy.. Give him the remote.. Maybe give him a lil something something.. :evil:

And afterwards... I will hit the street!!! :beer

[sistuhchey]

Originally posted by Bedroomeyes+
Make sure he was well fed and comfy.. Give him the remote.. Maybe give him a lil something something.. :evil:

And afterwards... I will hit the street!!! :beer




...at this stage in my life...I'm not big on hangin...but if I wanted to...I'd do just what she described....:beer :beer

[seductive_tee]

Ask him why....then say i'll be back later...enjoy!

[djackso]

Find him some brothers to hang out with while your'e gone.

[Toffee]

I would go out...... I would get to restless if I stayed in the house all the time

[OhSoPrecious]

I would probably stay home with my Nigga. . . just to make him happy~!! :rolleyes: After all, that is my goal. . . to keep him happy~!! :upretty

[SeaDuceme2]

See ya and I wouldn't wanna be ya!:beer

[ThickBodyHottie]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
I would probably stay home with my Nigga. . . just to make him happy~!! :rolleyes: After all, that is my goal. . . to keep him happy~!! :upretty


though i understand you, ms. ohso - know that a man will not respect you throwing away your plans to be all up under him...

[Sparkles]

Originally posted by ThickBodyHottie+



though i understand you, ms. ohso - know that a man will not respect you throwing away your plans to be all up under him...

TBH say it loud and say it over and over again, cause they ain't listening....

[mack_black]

Thats your neck of the woods....
those are your people.......

I aint hangin with ya :rolleyes:

But you need to go out there and hang with yo peeps....
dont worry about me....I surely will find something to do.....

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by Sparkles+


TBH say it loud and say it over and over again, cause they ain't listening....

That won't be necessary. . . I heard her the first time~!! :blah: I guess that's why my ass is single now, huh~?? :confused: :fu :upretty

[Brightness]

This is pretty much my response or thoughts when I'm on either side of the scenario....if it's my thing, I will ask and include you. If you don't want to roll then cool I will be considerate and not be ghost the whole time. WE will still have our time together.

If it's his thing, I make sure he has plenty of time to do his thing and engage in conversations that may not need to include my nosy ass cause I for sure would ask if I caught some innuendo.

The only thing I don't like is to be excluded and not even given the opportunity to decline which is what I'd do as I don't have the insecurity issue like that.

That happened to me once and I was very tight about it but then I didn't know if it was legitimate because he was going to visit his ex-in-laws. I would have declined out of the awkwardness if nothing else.

Thats your neck of the woods....
those are your people.......

I aint hangin with ya :rolleyes:

But you need to go out there and hang with yo peeps....
dont worry about me....I surely will find something to do.....

[Juicey1]

I guess its good when your both from the same place.........LOL

When Honeyboo and I go home.........he has friends and his brother he wants to hang with and I have my friend Shirley and my family. Sometimes there will be a party and we will all be out together. But then, there are those times when me & Shirley want to do our own thing and Honeyboo and they guys want to do their own thing. We just do it.

Give him a kiss, and we are out. Samething with my family.......I spend most of my time with them because thats who I went home to see.......he will spend time with them, but he enjoys being with his friends and family too.

We just meet up later at the hotel or my moms house if thats where we are staying.

[ERinger]

You compromise. Hang out part of the time and chill the rest. If that doesn't work, go out and deal witht the consequences later, lol.

[Pamalicious]

As one who parted ways with my husband on our wedding night because his boys came to Vegas and they hadn't seen each other in over 5 years (well a couple of them) - I don't see what the big deal is. He don't know a soul when we go see my peeps, but I'll drag him everywhere and if I wanna go out with some girlfriends or something - he's a people person so he sat and yacked it up with my mom, lol

[missbuttabutt]

Depends where we are. We both went to the same school at least part of the time in undergrad, but know none of the same people. When we go back and hang out with our respective groups of friends, he has his group and I have mine. We've never been the couple that needs to be all up under one another...