Talking to Teenagers

[seductive_tee]

Why do people think just because you talking to your child and a person(s) they had sex with you about to be a grandmother?

[que90nek]

perhaps they feel like you are condoning a RESPONSIBLE act between two babies.

[misha]

Talking responsibly to a teen without judging them or being harsh with them is what is going to keep you from becoming a grandmother....I raised one, and I know.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by seductive_tee+
Why do people think just because you talking to your child and a person(s) they had sex with you about to be a grandmother?

Cause they're ignorant. . they're on the outside looking in. . and most times, don't have a clue about what's going on~!!! :rolleyes:

[seductive_tee]

Originally posted by misha+
Talking responsibly to a teen without judging them or being harsh with them is what is going to keep you from becoming a grandmother....I raised one, and I know.

Thanks Misha, cause i sure ain't trying to be one right now. We both to young, i'm not even 35!

[mack_black]

Yeah...But

Weren't you a kid when you had your kids? Didn't you make your moms a grandma earlier than she expected to be one?

Life has a way of bringing things right back at ya; life has a way of adjusting things .....you were ignorant way back when....but now you know......

[yendys]

Originally posted by mack_black+
Weren't you a kid when you had your kids? Didn't you make your moms a grandma earlier than she expected to be one?

That is the very thing that worries me. I was 17 when I had my now 13 year old and the last thing I would want to happen is to be a grandmom in my early - mid to late 30s. I have 3 daughters and I know how easy it is to get caught out there. I just pray that they continue to grow into strong young women who have a strong sense of self worth and are not easily lead astray.

[djackso]

You better teach to your daughters about sex before some teenage boy does.

[seductive_tee]

Originally posted by mack_black+
Yeah...But
Weren't you a kid when you had your kids? Didn't you make your moms a grandma earlier than she expected to be one?

My mom was 36 when i made her a grandmother. She did not become a grandmother again until 7 years later.

[mack_black]

thats preety damned early to be a grandma to me......

[Brightness]

I think I'm good for at least another couple years....I know 50 is out of the question but I should make it to 45 before it even comes around as my daughter assures me that she doesn't want kids out of marriage (thank you, Jesus for that but we shall see...)

[Pamalicious]

I also got some time. She has a 'plan' it's written out on her own accord and it doesn't include children till she's about 27 or so. I understand that this is pre-having her nose opened, but a plan is so important in a child sticking to their goals. Having them and having a vision of a 'lifestyle' she would like to lead and things she would like to experience and me talking to her openly about choices, hopefully will see me being a good age to be a grandmomma.

[Juicey1]

I had my first baby at 16. I prayed my children wouldn't make me a grandmother too early as I did.

My prayers were answered. I am 45 and will become a grandmother in February. My daughter is 22 and having her first baby and my son is 28 expecting his first baby. And my baby boy is 17 with no children.

I am so very thankful they didn't have children before the age of 20.

[missbuttabutt]

I never wanted to have children when I was younger. I knew there was high school, then college, then grad school and children WERE NOT to be part of the equation, period dot end of story. Now, my mother is practically clawing at my back for me to give her some grandchildren - we're working on it.