Am I cheating or creeping?

[sinnah]

Hello Hush Family, I'm seeing this woman but I m not having sex with her at all. I'm more interested in her mind than body, but she has a nice body and I do think about getting to know that body more.

I'm afraid to tell my s/o because no matter how I explain it she won't understand. Nothing has happened between us. I have taken her to the movies and we have had lunch on more than one occasion. I have been to her home once, but I was a gentleman and sat on the couch with my hands in my lap.

I am not cheating/creeping? am I?

[misha]

not yet.

But you are playing with fire my friend. You are putting yourself in a position to cheat, and you have to ask yourself if it is really worth it.

What do you stand to lose by continuing to walk the line this way? Do you love your s/o? How do you think she would feel if she found out? How would you feel if the situation were reversed? Things to think about before you decide on your next move. I just hope you make the right decision.

[Toffee]

Yes I do think u r cheating.. Emotional cheating is just as painful as if you had had sex with this woman.

[mack_black]

Dude...

You're creeping.....you haven't cheated yet, but you're almost there...how long are you gonna be going to her crib and folding your hands in your lap, before those hands find themselves all over her? you already said she has nice body... :rolleyes:

[seductive_tee]

It's only a matter of time before you start cheating....right now you're creeping.

You say S/O, are you married?

How does the friend feel about you?

[yendys]

Beware...... a wondering mind sometimes lead to a wondering body.

A simple hug, or kiss on the cheek can and normally will lead to a roll or two in the bedroom. If is all innocent and such, then you should have no problem telling your S/O about it. If you feel the need to keep it under wraps, then perhaps there is more to it than you are willing to admit at present. But that is just MO.

[ThickBodyHottie]

Originally posted by sinnah
I have been to her home once, but I was a gentleman and sat on the couch with my hands in my lap.


a "gentleman" would not have been there without his s/o knowing about it...

[Babygirl]

You already know you are in the wrong..you wouldn't have asked. Consider your S/O's feelings, and think how you would feel if she was spending "quality time" with someone other than you???:rolleyes:

[CD]

Negro walking the fence hoping he'll fall into the pootang....:rolleyes:

[Vronni]

I think that you already know the answer.It's creepin...

[OhSoPrecious]

Nigga, you know you are creepin right now. . . once you hit it. . . you can call it cheatin~!! :rolleyes: I'm sure there won't be any confusion then~!! :hammer

[SeaDuceme2]

Originally posted by CD+
Negro walking the fence hoping he'll fall into the pootang....:rolleyes:


ROTFLMMFAO aint that the truth, CD....mofo's kill me with this fraginacle bullSHIT!!!

[ThickBodyHottie]

Originally posted by SeaDuceme2+



fraginacle
:D :cry: :D :cry:

why Ducey...WHY!?!?!????

[que90nek]

ok.
now that you have thoroughly received the tongue lashing that you knew the hush would impart upon u.....

u are still left with doubts. u r still considering.....it. the dirty deed.....

let's take the focus off of this other person....and put it on you and yours....what is it about your relationship that is different...is it the fact that u have been in your relationship for a long time and crave....something new...rather than the familiar. do u know what it is....is it the fact that u r flatterred by this other one....has she pumped your ego...has she stroked u...enough...to make u consider....

let me caution u.....the territory that you tread is dangerous...for your mental and emotional well being.

the problem with u two becoming such good friends and all is that...in her mind...she is becoming confused....she will begin to think...that ... wow...he really really wants me....and so...when/if u ever do cross that bridge and stick the ding ding in her...she will confuse that for a true act of....love.

i could go on...and paint several scenario, but......i think u already know...u have been down this road before....this isnt the first woman that has tried to be there for u....and she won't be the last. be strong.....be....strong. remember that mirror that u use to trim or shave....that mirror that helps u brush your teeth....its that same mirror that will persecute u...haunt u....make u wish that u could go back in time....its that mirror that will greet u every morning with a false smile as u kiss your SO on your way out to work....its that mirror that will make u wonder who it is that....is looking back....

if all that fells...to dissuade u....be a true friend to HER (the other HER) and spare her....spare yourself.

[ThickBodyHottie]

que, quit bustin' an andre on dude!:rolleyes:

[sistuhchey]

Originally posted by SeaDuceme2+



ROTFLMMFAO aint that the truth, CD....mofo's kill me with this fraginacle bullSHIT!!!




Bascially...that's it in a nutshell....no more no less!!!!

[sinnah]

Hello Hush Family, some of you tell me that I am emotionaly cheating on my s/o and some of you say that I'm not cheating but creeping.

Creeping? I guess I can agree on that. The lady is always younger than I am and I find that they are attracted to me and that is when I make my move. I am cautious.

If I do say so myself, I am always the gentleman. I have never crossed the line, never. I just enjoy the company and then I leave. Yes, I do think about having sex with the lady, but I never go through with it.

Most of this is selfish thinking on my part and I would not like it if I found my s/o doing the same. Thank you very much for your comments.

[SeaDuceme2]

funny how you like to throw around that word "gentlemen"..if you were true indeed the gentlemen you claim to be you wouldn't even be entertaining the idea of sleeping with this girl and your are INVOLVED in a relationship with someone else..

Note: sometimes thinking "it" is just as bad and acting on 'it"